Fashion (non)sense

Beggars can’t be choosers.  If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the course of my time as my mother, it’s that.  And when it comes to baby clothes?  We are TOTAL beggars.  We have actually purchased- our actual selves- probably about 50 dollars worth of clothing for Benjy.  Okay, maybe 100.  But everything else has come from other sources.

And this means that sometimes Benjy doesn’t match.

Especially when it comes to his outerwear.

And, unfortunately in Finland, kids have to wear outerwear in all its various forms throughout the year.  Benjy’s winter suit just got traded in for a spring suit- a pair of fully waterproof coveralls kids wear when playing outside.  But his hat, mittens, and boots match his winter suit- not his spring suit.

You remember this awesome photo:

Fashion (non)sense Vantaa professional photographer lasten valokuvaus Finland childrens photography

Add to that some light blue mittens, these OH SO STYLISH red sunglasses,

Fashion (non)sense Vantaa professional photographer lasten valokuvaus Finland childrens photography

and some dark blue snow boots, and you have a regular fashion plate.

Thank goodness the camera wasn’t pointed in the opposite direction (i.e. at ME) otherwise, you would have seen another tragic fashion victim in too-big maternity jeans, a bright blue snow coat, pink scarf, blue kid’s fleece winter hat, and grey and red hiking boots.  HOT HOT HOT.

Cheerios

No, but seriously.  Isn’t he THE CUTEST THING EVER??

Cheerios

Bad Influence

My kid is a rebel.

Other kids might follow the rules.  But Benjy?  Benjy makes his OWN rules.

Take the slide for instance.  Other kids like going down it?  Benjy spends his time going UP it.

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Nevermind he never actually gets anywhere.  And nevermind his insanely bad fashion sense- that’ll get its own very separate blog post very soon.

Benjy just goes his own way.  And yesterday, he found a recruit in Owen.  Owen was intrigued with Benjy’s crazy ideas and decided to follow.

So, up the slide he went, with Benjy right behind him to support him.

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And all went well.  Until it didn’t.

Bad Influence professional photographer lasten valokuvaus Helsinki Finland childrens photography

Some kids are more secure in doing things the right way round.  Maybe Benjy could learn a thing or two.

You should see the other guy…

So, Benjy had a rough 24 hours last week.  He transformed from a little boy into a total kamikaze, falling off the couch three times and falling off the outside step once.

Here are his battle wounds.

You should see the other guy... Vantaa professional photographer Finland family photography childrens photography

You should see the other guy... Vantaa professional photographer Finland family photography childrens photography

Why I love Olli…

Okay, so now it’s time for the last installment of marriage week.  The super sappy “Man oh man, am I glad I married this guy” post.  Here are a just two reasons-

1.  This house:

Why I love Olli...

This is a giant house in Masala, Kirkkonummi.  It was built in the 1930′s and now is totally and completely dilapidated.  And I wanted to buy it.  Sincerely wanted to buy it.  Buy it, renovate it, and turn it into an event centre/ bed and breakfast (don’t know if you’re aware, but it’s one of my dreams to own an event centre/b&b.  I contacted the real estate agent, got the information, and then sat down with Olli and had him read it (it was in Finnish).  And do you know what he said?  He said, “Sarah, I don’t think this is a good idea.”  He didn’t say, “No way, Jose.  That’s just stupid.”  He didn’t say, “What happened to your idea of owning a restaurant downtown that you had, like, two months ago?”  He didn’t say, “Never ever, never ever.”  He very patiently listened to me get excited.  He let me go on for days as I argued about how we could do it- how perfect it would be- how it would ultimately be a good investment.

But he balanced me.  He asked the hard questions.  He didn’t get swept away by the romantic idea of turning an old house into a beautiful mansion.  And that’s good.

I still think that we could buy this house.  I still think that I’d make a darn fine event venue owner (and SOMEDAY I will), but I’m so glad that if (and when) we do buy a property, it’ll be a sound investment, because I’ve got stable, solid Olli making sure that I don’t do anything too, too crazy.

2.  He took these photos of Benjy and me.  And for that, I love him.

Why I love Olli...

Why I love Olli...

Ain’t nothing cuter…

… than a baby in a diaper.

You can dress ‘em in their Sunday finest.  Put on the funniest little t-shirt.  Find the cutest shoes and best hat.

Aint nothing cuter... Vantaa professional photographer lasten valokuvaus Finland childrens photography

They won’t be as cute as a kid in a diaper.

Aint nothing cuter... Vantaa professional photographer lasten valokuvaus Finland childrens photography

Nope, not nearly.

Starting Out- Lesson number one: Light

A friend of mine recently emailed me saying she would like to get more serious in photography.  And she wanted to be pointed in the right direction.  And this TOTALLY excited me, because now it’s my turn to give back!

About a year ago, when I started to get more serious about photography, Denise took me by the hand, gave me an INSANE amount of encouragement, never EVER put my photos down (even when they were horrific) and really, really helped me become the photographer I am today.  If you want to see just how far I’ve come, please check out my VERY FIRST blog post here.  And don’t laugh.  At least not too hard.

And now it’s my turn.  My turn to share whatever I’ve learned with you.

Oh, and I’ll only say this once- my little disclaimer. I am not an expert.  AT ALL.  There are a million and one photographers who are both better than me and can explain this better than me.  I visit their sites regularly and am both humbled and inspired.  So, please, PLEASE take this series for what it is- just another person trying to help and encourage fellow photographers.

So, we’ll start this series called “Starting Out,” which will help new photographers or photographers who want to get more serious and study their craft a bit more.

The series will be aimed at DSLR owners (the bigger cameras with lenses that can be changed), but I also hope they’re relevant for point-and-shoot owners.  Because, my dear friends, it is the magician and not the wand that makes a great photographer (as evidenced by Tara Whitney who now takes her point and shoot to the beach and STILL gets the raddest photos in the world of her family).

And now, without further ado is my first lesson- the lesson of using light.

Light is a tricky beast.  VERY VERY tricky.  Before I started photography, my motto was The more light the better and so I’d stick Benjy in direct sunlight and go to town.  NOT GOOD, my friends.  NOT GOOD.

Starting Out  Lesson number one:  Light professional photographer photography tips Finland childrens photography

First of all, we’ve got some squinting action going on.  Second of all, the harsh light bleaches Benjy’s skin.  Third of all the white is TOTALLY blinding.  So, bad.  Bad, bad, bad.

Whenever possible, avoid direct sunlight.

So, what, then- how about some shade?  Yes!  Great!  Shade!  But what kind of shade?  Shade from a tree?

Bah!  Then you end up with blotches like these!

Starting Out  Lesson number one:  Light professional photographer photography tips Finland childrens photography

Not good!  Let’s try and find some open shade!

Starting Out  Lesson number one:  Light professional photographer photography tips Finland childrens photography

Ah!  Better!  Open shade is the kind of shade you find beside buildings or next to cars or in the shade of tree trunks or…  be creative!  It should be smooth, even shade, without blotches or patches of light.

But what do you do if you’re somewhere without open shade?  Say, at the beach or the pool?

Well, what I’ve done- and I’m not saying this is right- but I’ve shot INTO the sun, setting up my camera to expose for the faces, so that my shots are backlit.

Starting Out  Lesson number one:  Light professional photographer photography tips Finland childrens photography

Or I sucked it up, stuck a hat on Benjy and shot directly in the sun.  But again, I set up my camera to expose for the face (we’ll get to how to do that in a future post).

Starting Out  Lesson number one:  Light professional photographer photography tips Finland childrens photography

So, in conclusion- here are the takeaway points for you:

1.  Don’t shoot in direct sun if you can.

2.  Find OPEN EVEN shade whenever possible.

3.  If impossible, make your photos backlit or just suck it up and shoot in the open sun, setting up your camera to expose for the face.

If there are any photographers reading this who have something to add, PLEASE DO.  Please, please leave your know-how in the comment section.  And if there are any readers with questions on this post, please don’t hesitate to ask.

Potty Training

Here’s my how-to guide on potty training, gleaned from one week’s experience in potty training my own little bundle of joy.

Step one:  buy the training potty.  This is seemingly more difficult than one would think- I kept forgetting to buy it when at the store.  Like, FOR MONTHS kept forgetting.

Step two:  put your kid on the training potty.

Step three:  read a story to your kid on the training potty to keep him entertained.

Step four:  watch in amazement as your child miraculously starts peeing and pooping every time you put him on the potty, starting on day one without any coercion, threats, or bribery.

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I have NO IDEA why this has been so easy.  But it seems that Benjy, at 17 months, is well on his way to being potty trained.  My plan is to let him run around without a diaper in summer, so he really understands that he should use the potty every time he has to pee.  And maybe we should come up with some sort of sign for “I have to pee” since he still isn’t saying A WORD.

Easter Service

I’m going to show you a picture here that marks one of the best, most joyous Easters I can remember.

The service was lovely, my handsome husband played the cello during the hymns, there was a baptism, and an African feast in the crypt afterwards.  It was WONDERFUL.

And I took the annual Easter photo of the congregation.

This post is not to talk about the difficulties of gathering a giant group of people to the front of the church after the service and convincing them that NOT EVERYONE can stand in the back row.  It’s not to talk about the impracticalities of using a fixed lens for such an exercise.  And it’s not to talk about the pros and cons of a high f-stop.

No, the purpose is just to show you this photo,

Easter Service professional photographer Helsinki Finland

and then zoom in on my dear son, who is sitting front and centre,

Easter Service professional photographer Helsinki Finland

and then LAUGH.

He is picking his nose in every single shot.  I LOVE IT.  This photo is definitely being shown at his wedding.

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